How TO BUILD STRONG AND LASTING RELATIONSHIP

As humans, our relationships are an integral part of our lives. Whether it’s our interactions with family, friends, or romantic partners, relationships shape who we are, and they have a significant impact on our overall well-being.

Relationships are complex and require effort from both parties involved. However, with the right approach, skills, and mindset, you can cultivate healthy and meaningful relationships that can last a lifetime.

Here are some tips for building and maintaining strong relationships:

1. Communication is key.

Communication is an essential aspect of any relationship. Whether you’re discussing your feelings, sharing your thoughts, or working through a problem, it’s important to communicate openly and honestly with your partner.

Remember to listen actively, be respectful, and give your undivided attention to the person you’re communicating with. When communicating, try to avoid being defensive or critical, and instead, focus on finding solutions and having productive conversations.



2. Practice empathy.

Empathy involves putting yourself in someone else’s shoes and understanding their perspective, feelings, and experiences. It’s important to practice empathy in your relationships because it can help you relate to others and be more compassionate and supportive.

When practicing empathy, try to be patient, understanding, and non-judgmental. It’s also crucial to validate the other person’s feelings, even if you don’t agree with them.



3. Show appreciation and gratitude.

Showing gratitude and appreciation for the people in your life can have a significant impact on your relationships. It can help foster a sense of love and connection and make the other person feel valued and supported.

You can show appreciation in various ways, such as saying thank you, expressing your gratitude verbally, or doing something special for the other person. Remember to be sincere in your expressions of appreciation and avoid taking the other person for granted.

4. Resolve conflicts effectively.

Conflicts are inevitable in any relationship, and it’s important to learn how to handle them effectively. When faced with a conflict, avoid reacting impulsively or getting defensive. Instead, take a step back, assess the situation, and try to find a solution that works for both parties.

Remember to communicate effectively, listen actively, and be respectful of the other person’s feelings and needs. Work towards finding a mutually acceptable solution that benefits both parties.

5. Make time for each other.

In any relationship, it’s essential to make time for each other. Whether it’s spending quality time together, having meaningful conversations, or doing activities you both enjoy, making time for each other can help strengthen your bond and improve your relationship.

Remember to prioritize your relationship and carve out time for each other, even when life gets busy. Whether it’s a date night or a weekend away, making time for each other can help keep your relationship strong and healthy.

In conclusion, relationships are an essential part of our lives, and they require effort, communication, and empathy to thrive. By practicing these tips, you can build and maintain strong and healthy relationships that can last a lifetime. Remember to prioritize your relationships, communicate effectively, show appreciation, resolve conflicts, and make time for each other.

REPAIR THE BROKEN ALTER

REPAIR THE BROKEN ALTARS.

Life is a warfare, so we must learn how to fight if we want to win the battles that confronts us daily.

(for the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds;)
2 Corinthians 10:4 KJV

We are constantly in diverse kinds of warfere . Many have been consumed because of ignorance and unpreparedness.

When you are facing a crisis in your business, at your job, in your finances or in your marriage it’s an attack from the enemy.

Therefore, From time to time, we need to keep stoking the embers of fire on our altars, so that the fire will continue to burn and consume strange forces that come around to combat you.

When altars are broken, the fire goes down,not will give room for the flies, reptiles, and even small ants to gather around.

When altars are broken, the presence of the LORD leaves, and evil spirits have their day.

When altars are broken, the wicked one will operate freely to steal, kill and destroy.

When altars are broken, miracles and the supernatural can’t be experienced.

When altars are broken, false prophets at liberty to operate in the land.

When altars are broken, Jezebels takes over kingdoms meant for men.

When altars are broken, homes are threatened or even broken.

When altars are broken, untimely death becomes recurrent in the land.

The only way out is to repair the altar, and keep the fire of the spirit burning day and night.

“And Elijah said unto all the people, Come near unto me. And all the people came near unto him. And he repaired the altar of the LORD that was broken down.
1 Kings 18:30 KJV

If we want to see and experience the move of God in our lives, we must repair the broken altars.

We must repair our personal alters. PSLAM 51;17-18

We must repair our family altars. 2 Samuel 6:11-12

We must repair the altar in our churches for the fire of revival, signs and wonders to fall. Acts 2:42-47

We must also repair the altar of the nation, for the fire of the glory of God to fall. 2 chronicles 7: 1-15

TO REPAIR THE BROKEN ALTAR.

  1. GENUINE REPENTANCE AND SELF EXAMINATION MUST BE DONE. 2 Corinthians 13:5
  2. PRAY ALWAYS WITHOUT CEASING. LUKE 18:1-2, 1 THES 5:17, JAMES 5:16-19
  3. CHANGE YOUR FOCUS FROM SELF, TO GOD. 1 KINGS 18: 19-21. You can’t fulfill destiny in between two opinions.

Prayer

Father, create in me a clean heart and renew your spirit within me. Put your spirit in me, and cause me to walk in your ways Lord in the name of Jesus Christ.

God bless you richly and abundantly in Jesus name.

Pst (Dr) Vincent Udume Odogbor

LightandSpeed2023.

My first time trying to write a song

I remember back then in 2016_1017

I was a very determined person and I set my mind to do whatever I want to do without any distraction.so I chose to write songs and then I have a name called NICEBLINK…I was the founder of K.B.S BAND….which simply means kogi boys stars I had two songs which makes me the top 5 in my arena one was (1)take me home and also and another was Dance for me.i struggled writing. A song so one faitful day I decided to seat down in a lonely place around a thick bush to get inspiration that was when I learn my own skill of writing songs …the process was that I have to record first before I can play later then to sing it out loud like up to 8times a day….so for you to get started you need a book, pen and any recording tape

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